Leading or Stepping to Your Desired Outcome?

How we use words dramatically impacts what they mean to us. While at work, I would regularly tell myself how much my client/homeowner would love the results. (I do interior house painting) Though this is more of self-talk or self-praise, it was still the use and choice of words that made me feel a certain … Continue reading Leading or Stepping to Your Desired Outcome?

Start Where You Are, Not Where You Want to Be

    If your desire is not in line with the action you take, you will most likely not reach your desired result. You must learn to start where you are, not where you want to be. It is a misconception that taking action is the key to success. Even when those who are successful … Continue reading Start Where You Are, Not Where You Want to Be

Don’t Dismiss Your Dominant Thoughts

  For about a decade or so, skateboarding was my sport. I loved the freedom and constant opportunity to learn, grow, try new tricks and witness my progress. But sometimes, when I would set my board down in front of me and give it a push, instead of going straight, it would veer to the … Continue reading Don’t Dismiss Your Dominant Thoughts

Be Honest with Yourself, Not Hard on Yourself

Making an effort to positively change your life, especially when you've been in a rut for a long time, can at times make you pessimistic. That is, your efforts rarely seem to make the difference or lead you to the results you're looking for. Learning to replace established behaviors that lead you to further into … Continue reading Be Honest with Yourself, Not Hard on Yourself

Another Expert Myth and Misunderstanding

In his latest book, High Performance Habits, the last habit is Demonstrate Courage. (And, to be honest, I haven't read the book - I'm just going from a breakdown from Inc. magazine and what I've read on his site.) The first thing is that he states that these habits must be consciously done all the … Continue reading Another Expert Myth and Misunderstanding

How Low Will You Go to Connect With Those Around You?

Your looking for resonance with humanity that surrounds you rather than with your own Vortex. - Abraham-Hicks For those of you looking to or working on transitioning to a better version of yourself, connecting with old friends or family will likely stir up uneasiness as you remold yourself. At least those you no longer resonate … Continue reading How Low Will You Go to Connect With Those Around You?